Category: Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction

AT THE POSTNATAL EXAMINATION – SUPPORTING POSTNATAL FAMILY PLANNING

It is sad that few hospitals now support postnatal family planning clinics and the opportunity to return to the place where the baby was born is seldom available. At such a visit the woman could show off the baby, have her new status as mother recognized and discuss her delivery, even though it might be [...]


THE STEREOTYPES – ‘CONTRACEPTION IS LEFT TO THE WOMAN’ (GENERAL INFORMATION)

Men are unlikely to admit that they consider contraception to be the woman’s business but again the shadow is there. ‘A lot of other men do,’ they say. Perhaps it is because many men are nervous about their sexuality. They stir quickly and not always when expected, and they are not used to the idea [...]


THE PATIENT WHO PRESENTS LATE – GENERAL INFORMATION

Some women present late because they genuinely did not believe themselves to be pregnant, often at the extremes of the reproductive age range, or because they have irregular cycles. Some deny the problem until the bulge begins to appear, or hope that they will miscarry. Others sadly may be the victim of a laborious system [...]


CARE OF THE YOUNGER PATIENT – THE METHOD CHOSEN (INTRODUCTION)

The COC is the most common form of contraception chosen by the younger patient. In view of this, it merits most attention in this chapter. The doctor looking after this age group has a unique opportunity to get it right at the first consultation as regards absolute and relative contraindications and risk factors. At the [...]


CARING FOR THE POORLY MOTIVATED – NEGATIVE FEELINGS

How have the negative feelings towards contraception come about in these families? Often both the women and men have grown up feeling that the world is against them. Unloved and rejected by their own parents, lacking self-esteem, feeling powerless to influence their destiny, they live from day to day, unable to plan for the future [...]


CONTRACEPTION, PLANNING A FAMILY AND INFERTILITY: WITHDRAWAL AND THE RHYTHM METHOD

Withdrawal-This is a simple method but it can be frustrated by, or frustrating for, either partner. The man withdraws his penis during the interval between his orgasm setting in and ejaculation starting. Since his instinct at this time is to thrust his penis deep into the vagina he may fail to withdraw in time. As [...]


SEXUAL DIFFICULTIES: UNDERLYING CAUSES

Although an increasing number of sexual difficulties are known to be the result of physical illness, the majority are probably of psychological origin. It is always possible that discoveries such as the fact that high prolactin or oestrogen production in some men can produce impotence will explain some sexual difficulties but they are unlikely to [...]


COPULATION: UNDERSTANDING THE MECHANICS IN A MAN

Our knowledge of the detail of what really happens during sexual arousal was, until about twenty years ago, very patchy indeed. The pioneering work of Dr William Masters and Dr Virginia Johnson in the USA changed all that and now many other researchers have repeated and extended their work.

In a [...]


MARRIAGE: SECOND TIME AROUND

Because there are now so many people around in the remarriage market a whole new industry has arisen to cope with them. Marriage bureaux are, of course, not new but they are increasing in numbers and some deal with specialised groups of the population. Computer-dating is popular and singles clubs and those for the divorced [...]


MARRIAGE: HOW TO COPE WITH ROWS

Many a woman says that her husband will not row with her and that as a result she cannot clear the air. This often happens because women tend to have superior verbal skills and, along with their female logic, defeat men, who then choose not to argue. There must have been a failure of communication [...]


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